A trauma bond is a deep emotional attachment that forms between a person and their abuser, typically as a result of repeated cycles of abuse and intermittent reinforcement. It is a psychological response to intense, often manipulative emotional experiences that create confusion, loyalty, and dependency — even in the face of harm. Unlike healthy attachment, trauma bonding is rooted in fear, shame, and control rather than trust, safety, and mutual respect. This type of bond can be especially difficult to recognize and break, as the relationship often swings between periods of intense connection and episodes of abuse or neglect.

It’s one of the most painful feelings in the world: wondering if the people you care about care about you in return. Maybe they don’t say “I love you” often. Maybe they don’t check in as much as you’d like. Maybe they feel distant, distracted, or emotionally unavailable. Whatever the reason, when someone doesn’t show they care in the ways you need, it can leave you feeling confused, hurt, and alone. But here’s the truth: not everyone knows how to show love — and their silence doesn’t always mean they don’t care.

Re-entering the dating world later in life can be both exciting and overwhelming. For many, the experience brings a mix of emotions — hope, anxiety, self-doubt, and even frustration. The dating landscape has changed drastically (and that’s an understatement), and the confidence once felt in youth may now be replaced with feelings of inadequacy or fear of rejection. However, despite these challenges, later in life dating can also be an opportunity for growth, self-discovery, and yes, even love.

There is an old adage: breaking up is hard to do. Most of us at one time or another have suffered the pain of a broken heart. While we know that hearts don’t literally break, it can be hard to believe that’s true when a relationship has ended. It feels like the place that was once filled with love has been shattered to pieces.

In today’s digital world, where the lines between innocent engagement and emotional betrayal are blurred, this situation raises an important discussion: When does social media behavior cross the line, and should it be considered a form of cheating?

In recent years, many of us have experienced challenges like we never have seen before. Watching events unfold it is easy to think: I don’t understand what is happening; it seems like our world is upside down.

Do you often think about doing something different or implementing a new idea only to allow fear to stop you dead in your tracks without giving the opportunity a try?

I’m often amazed at people who feel they are more important than others. Those who believe that their wealth, status, or whatever circumstance they create in their mind, entitles them to special treatment or reverence that others do not receive.

I recently went through an experience that was painful for me on a personal level. Something I was certain would occur, didn’t happen. I did everything humanly possible to make my wish a reality, but in the end, things didn’t work out as I had planned.

What makes happy people happy? Why is someone who goes through a tragedy or lives in a horrible situation happy, while others who seem to have it all are miserable?

We live in a fast paced world, seldom taking the time to catch our breath. Add to the general stress of life, a significant event such as losing a loved one, getting fired from a job, going through a divorce, or another difficult situation, and you have a recipe for emotional overload.

The truth of the matter is that while there are many people in wonderful relationships, there are more people today living life as singles than ever before.

Abandonment issues often stem from past experiences of rejection, neglect, or abandonment, leading to deep-seated fears of being left or rejected. People with abandonment issues often struggle to create a healthy relationship.

Making friends is tough. It takes time, trust, and a little bit of luck.

Every sappy romantic can recall the moment in the movie, Love Story, when after an argument, Oliver told Jenny he was sorry and through her tears she quivered and replied, “Don’t … love means never having to say you’re sorry.” Anyone who has ever been in a loving relationship understands the point of that statement – unconditional love doesn’t require one to apologize. But, is it really a good practice to forego an admission of wrongdoing or hurtful behavior?

Even in the darkest moments of your life, there is strength within you (that you don’t even know exists) and, if you don’t give up and succumb to the negative feelings, you will realize that there is hope and that better times lie ahead.

It seems like only yesterday we were saying hello to 2024 and making resolutions about all of the wonderful things we wanted to experience in the new year. And now, here we are reflecting back on how that year was lived.

When someone talks about you—especially negatively—it can affect your emotions and self-esteem. This hurt stems from several psychological and emotional factors.

Illness is not a guarantee because of heredity, but learned behaviors may be. It’s time for all of us to break the cycle of bad habits. It’s time for us to incorporate a healthy lifestyle, develop a positive attitude, and teach our children well.

Releasing fear around money and cultivating a positive relationship with it involves transforming deeply rooted beliefs, shifting your mindset, and creating practical financial habits.

Dating someone who isn’t the right person for you can be a challenging and confusing experience. At first, the excitement of being in a relationship may obscure underlying incompatibilities. However, over time, the signs begin to surface, creating emotional friction and making it clear that the relationship may not be a good fit. Recognizing and addressing this situation is crucial for both personal growth and long-term happiness.

Life is full of unexpected twists and turns, and setbacks are an inevitable part of the journey. Whether it's the loss of a job, the end of a relationship, a financial crisis, or a health challenge, setbacks can leave you feeling defeated and unsure of how to move forward. However, it is often in these moments of adversity that you can discover your true strength and resilience. Moving on after a setback requires a combination of self-compassion, perspective, and a proactive mindset.

One of the greatest gifts of aging is the accumulation of wisdom. Life experiences — both the highs and the lows — teach us valuable lessons that shape who we are. As we get older, we become more attuned to our inner voice and less concerned with external validation. This wisdom allows us to make decisions with greater clarity and conviction, guided by the knowledge of what truly matters.

I’m a control freak. There … I said it. I like everything to be in perfect order. I have a difficult time when there is a mess in my surroundings or in my life. Being a person who is addicted to certainty is manageable when everything goes as planned, but what happens when life throws a curveball?